Existential essentialism unfolds knowledge on those questions human can not untie or control, such as love and change. This kind of knowledge is like cracks that brings light into being. The essence of love is search of the unknown. This crack does not untie or control the human love. It is a crack that give light into the human existence by acceptance of being a human.
When humans throw light on a phenomenon it must not coagulate or become totalitarian. We must keep it alive by expressing the cracks and the love of the phenomenon and the diversity of relations the phenomenon unfolds itself.
Existential essentialism 